Closest 50 non-Friends for 
30something:
1: filthymonkey
2: kevininatutu
4: slytheran
5: leanan
6: lily
7: megarandom
8: somebunny
9: andy__
10: guessthatmug
11: holyprincetom
12: kittycatstied
13: mancer
14: sicklyscars
15: szandora
16: velvetechos
17: yunalilly
18: soliloquy
19: evelynne
20: harriet_m_welsh
21: cecile
22: thiefcatcher72
23: verbminx
24: twigwonderkid
25: idori
26: lilylith
27: miroje
28: morganalefay
29: spiritt
30: suladog
31: childfree
32: kitiara
33: brokendoll
34: maradydd
35: tomscud
36: michaelduff
37: agent_smith
38: perspectivism
39: onesoul
40: st_emma
41: madamjolie
42: harley_77
43: aviatrix
44: jenhowell
45: smileycynic
46: espvivisection
47: simonfunk
48: pro_choice
49: catelin
50: corax
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30something